(Thoughts shared at Seudat Shlishit at the Maimonides Kehillah, Brookline, MA to mark the recent Yahrzeits of my father-in-law, Abraham Leidner, z”l and my father, Seymour Hefter, z”l) ...

What does it mean to love our children equally? It’s a question that many families wrestle with, especially when each parent’s and child’s personality, needs, and circumstance vary so widely.