Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck — who were married for 10 years before they split in 2015 — made headlines when they spent Thanksgiving together along with their three children Violet (19), Seraphina “Fin” (16) and Samuel (12) last year. The former couple has apparently overcome a lot since their divorce, and an insider told OK! magazine:

Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck‘s daughter Violet reportedly cut ties with her father’s ex-wife Jennifer Lopez. Feeling like she was used as a “pawn” during Affleck and Lopez’s divorce, the 19-year-old decided to step back from her former stepmother and her family,

Violet Affleck, the eldest daughter of Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck, reportedly distances herself from former stepmother Jennifer Lopez following a high-profile divorce.